Being the Best
I mentioned awhile back that my family drove up to Philadelphia recently for the Pink Invitational. My younger daughter is a USAG gymnast and spends A LOT of time at the gym. This means I spend A LOT of time in the car, driving her back and forth to practice. I don’t mind doing it though because she is truly dedicated and passionate about her sport. In fact, her entire team, and all of the young girls I regularly see at these events, are an inspiration. They spend a minimum of fifteen hours a week at the gym – the equivalent of a part-time job – training, conditioning, practicing their skills, and learning new ones. It’s a sport that takes both courage and commitment.
Every now and then I’ll hear my daughter or another gymnast worry that their scores aren’t high enough or they didn’t win as many awards as they were hoping to at an event. And every time I remind them how amazing it is that they are simply ON THE TEAM. They probably don’t realize it, since they get so caught up in the competitive season, the rigorous practice schedule, and the intensity of the meets, but the fact that they’ve worked hard enough to become a member of a USAG team at all is a feat to be celebrated.
Writers, take note. Because all of us probably experience the same feelings that I see in these young gymnasts at some point during our writing careers. At times, we’ve probably all felt that our sales (or contest scores) weren’t high enough or we didn’t win as many (or any) awards as we were hoping to. But I’m writing this post to remind us how amazing it is to simply be ON THE TEAM. We may not realize it, since we get so caught up in the frenzy of social media, whatever rigorous deadline or word count schedule we’ve set ourselves upon, and the intensity of pursuing the path to publication (or continued publication), but the fact that we all work so hard practicing our skills and learning new ones is a fact to be celebrated.
Embrace your dedication to craft, your passion for creativity, your courage to take a chance on yourself and your work, and your commitment to whatever goals you’ve set for yourself. Take a moment now to smile and say, I’m glad I’m a WRITER. Smile and say, “I’m glad I’m ON THE TEAM.” :-D
The Power of Pink
One of the coolest things about gymnastics is that it’s such an empowering sport for girls. Because of their training, these girls are STRONG even though they are little. Outside of the gym, they are often underestimated because of their size. But their strength to weight ratio is incredible. The sport also teaches FEMALE SOLIDARITY, a message I stand behind wholeheartedly. The meet was a great example of how girls and women can support one another regardless of whether they are big or little, strong or vulnerable.
And the meet reminded us that PINK is a color for everyone, not just girls. All the dads and male coaches were embracing the “awesomeness of pink” too!
The Pink Invitational is the largest fundraising event for Unite for HER, a nonprofit organization whose mission is to “make a positive difference in the lives of women and girls by supporting and providing breast cancer and wellness programs that educate, empower and restore.” The group focuses on wellness initiatives for all women and girls. To learn more about the group or to donate, click here.
- Here’s one from last year (almost a year to the day!) where I moan a bit about how White Heart of Justice wasn’t going that well and share some pics of my daughter from a recent meet.
- Here’s a more personal, but hopefully equally inspirational, one from December 2011 when I first started blogging: Falling and Getting Back Up Again.
So, writers, how about you? Do you ever struggle with insecurity? (Come on, don’t we all? Admit it! Embrace it! And then get rid of it!!)
Readers, do you practice a sport? Have a favorite one to watch? What are some of the things you’ve learned from participating in sports or watching your kids participate? What’s your favorite color? Do you love PINK???
Tomorrow, I’ll post some White Heart of Justice news, and then Monday, I’ll post a book recommendation. Best wishes for a wonderful weekend, everyone!